COMMENTS PLZZ


To whom so ever it may concern....

NO actually its better to say Dear frnds ...

I need some help from you for a script :D:D.... and the topic is no other than "love"... sounds lame i know, but then i cant help it ... it is quite exciting and i have never written a love story.

Now the task at hand is that i would like you all to comment on a few questions listed below... plz think for moment, think about somethign related to your life connected to that question, and then answer. My thanks is the only incentive i can offer you for this help.... but the best answers 'might' get a treat at CCD ... no just kidding .....

But seriously ... plzz answer these it will help me lot


- Do you think that all love stories are almost the same... or each one is diffeerent

- Do you think ... love can be as fleeting as for half an hour

- Do you infact believe in the word defined love.... or do you think its more of you find someone compatible with you

- What does it feel like bieng in love ( AGAIN i will clarify its not a YASH RAJ productions:P)... you can use as much creativity as you like:P

- Can you fall in 'love' more than once in your lifetime......

- This one is very imp. : imagine a person likes you .... you know it but dont share the same feelings.... somehow you are stuck ina romantic situation.... that other person............. says he/she would like to kiss you .............. What would be your first thoughts........... not what will you say ....... but what will be the first thing going on in your head......

- Also anything else you would like to share on this topic




Just to clarify .. this is actually for a script ... and asking for everyones comments is just another crazy idea from my head ... because many a times i feel .. that whatever i write is very much related to what i know and feel rather than about the people whom i will FORCE to read it and appreciate it ...:P ...

waiting eagerly
Golani

8 comments:

विकास कुमार said...

- Do you think that all love stories are almost the same... or each one is diffeerent

All love stories are similar in the way that they are different for people in love and sae for everyone else.

- Do you think ... love can be as fleeting as for half an hour

Well...it depends on how u define the love. But, I bliv that age of a love is a wide span ranging from a moment to a lifetime.

- Do you infact believe in the word defined love.... or do you think its more of you find someone compatible with you

We make an image of what love is like. And then we search compatibility. We keep on increasing or threshold of compatibility factor and hence we keep on redefining love again and again.

- What does it feel like bieng in love ( AGAIN i will clarify its not a YASH RAJ productions:P)... you can use as much creativity as you like:P

Its' like every thing that u did before it was incomplete and everything u'll do after will b e meaningless.

- Can you fall in 'love' more than once in your lifetime......

- This one is very imp. : imagine a person likes you .... you know it but dont share the same feelings.... somehow you are stuck ina romantic situation.... that other person............. says he/she would like to kiss you .............. What would be your first thoughts........... not what will you say ....... but what will be the first thing going on in your head......

Let's experiment. ;)

- Also anything else you would like to share on this topic

Dude! Whats wrong with you?

omesh said...

1. Love stories are same as far as the emotional bonding is concerned. There are differences, however, in the way the bond is formed and sustained.

2. Love can be fleeting. You can feel wonderful in the company of someone you meet for a very short span of time. You may even want to snuggle with that person!

3. Although it is about finding someone compatible, we do seem to like people who are very different from us and we respect the differences. It's like, as long as the person gives me what I am looking for, similarities and differences don't matter.

4. Being in love: when thoughts of someone bring a smile to one's face, when there is a longing to be with the person, sensitivity/understanding for that person, a sense of comfort/intimacy with the person.

5. Yes, one can fall in love more than once. In fact, it can happen simultaneously too! Don't we love our parents, siblings and friends. Though, such relationships are normally platonic.

6. I wud definitely reciprocate if the person is sufficiently good-looking (by my standards); I may even do so out of respect for the fact that the person loves me. Of course, there should be no bad breath!

Ravali said...

- Do you think that all love stories are almost the same... or each one is diffeerent

The only same thing probably is tht it has the common element "love" in it...like no two ppl can think alike...we cant expect a relation of a combination of 2 ppl (who can vary ) to b alike....so it gives us more combinations which makes it even more unlikely tht it cud b alike :D

- Do you think ... love can be as fleeting as for half an hour

i think tht wud b compassion or jus liking...luv i think is sumthing which is more stronger than mere attraction of half an hour. when u luv sumone ...u will luv them till sumthing changes the luv to hatred.

- Do you infact believe in the word defined love.... or do you think its more of you find someone compatible with you
thr r loads of varieties in luv... u luv ur mom...u dnt jus luv her coz u think she is compatible with u... tht wud b more of having common interests...so u wud go out with tht person and hang arnd with them....luv doesnt need ppl who share same interests

- What does it feel like bieng in love

feeling like u have sumthing others dont have...feeling like u cud do nething for the one u luv..... actually...no.... it jus feels like "being loved"

- Can you fall in 'love' more than once in your lifetime......
yes coz thr might b more than one person u r in luv with..but probably not at the same time ... but then u luv one more than the other....thts whr the difference comes in

- imagine a person likes you .... you know it but dont share the same feelings.... somehow you are stuck ina romantic situation.... that other person............. says he/she would like to kiss you .............. What would be your first thoughts........... not what will you say ....... but what will be the first thing going on in your head......

i dont think kissing is a big issue as far as i am concerned unless u mean a french kiss :P and even tht...the situation comes...and then the mind jus acts...u cant sit here in front of the lappy and think abt it

- Also anything else you would like to share on this topic

luv is sumthing very abstract...for eack one it wud vary... like u can obviously guess frm the answers u r going to get....so dnt bother catering to everyones definition... ppl wud accept ne definition tht u want to giv to luv as long as they see a possibility of "luv" in it :)

$udhi said...

- Do you think that all love stories are almost the same... or each one is diffeerent

its all the same unless you are the one into it

$udhi said...

- Do you think ... love can be as fleeting as for half an hour

yes, why not ? Isn't it just another feeling/phase of life which passes by?

- Do you infact believe in the word defined love.... or do you think its more of you find someone compatible with you

I honestly don't know, perhaps because I din't get your question correctly

- What does it feel like bieng in love ( AGAIN i will clarify its not a YASH RAJ productions:P)... you can use as much creativity as you like:P

HaHaHaHaHa... :P I guess that's enough of creativity from my side

- Can you fall in 'love' more than once in your lifetime......

Yes, I think I can.

- Also anything else you would like to share on this topic

Mujhe role de dena golu ismein plzzzzzzzzzzz :P ;) :D

~$udhi :)

Deepak Kumar Mishra said...

SHREE GANESHAAY NAMO NAMAH.......

Hey KAAMDEV mujhe shakti do!!!!

Well lets start the qtn paper (is thr any time limit?)

Q 1. Do you think that all love stories are almost the same... or each one is diffeerent?

ANS) Never been a party to any love saga. Neither in real life nor in reel life. Ur lucky that ur soon going to be a part of it neways. Well as an observer i can say that the only similarity is whenever you say the word "LOVE" there is a smile on your face...rest all is different due to difference in genetic patterns of individuals.

Q 2)Do you think ... love can be as fleeting as for half an hour?
ANS) Had to chk the dictionary for the word fleeting. Well, i think guessing age of love is quiet difficult. Well the age of Intense emotional love can be even less than half an hour. Rest all the time it doesnt dies....it's just there. The period during which you feel immense emotional attachment to a being is really shortlived....but you know what...THIS is the very beauty of love.

Q 3) Do you infact believe in the word defined love.... or do you think its more of you find someone compatible with you?
ANS) Well, thr is a simple equation...:D:D

LOVE = a*LUST + b*RESPECT

Case 1) a=0 & b non zero (for all t>0) This is the case with all sisterly or motherly or fatherly or siblingly love. It even includes the compassion you have for all animals and plants (in all normal cases :D)

Case2) b = 0 and a non zero(for all t>0) Humfffffffff have you ever been with a prostitue????

Case 3) a non zero && b non zero (for all t there are certain values assigned to these coefficients. And these coefficients remain constant for a span of time and then changes. If at any point of time these coefficients take incompatible values with regards to the other partner, then there are problems........

Deepak Kumar Mishra said...

Q 4)What does it feel like bieng in love (AGAIN i will clarify its not a YASH RAJ productions:P)... you can use as much creativity as you like:P
ANS)Imagine yourself as the first MAN who designed the earth. (may be u can say GOD). He designed it in such a way that everything in the world he created, is exactly in the same way he wanted it to be. And from then onwards any chages which happened in his world seemed beautiful him (even if it wasnt very pleasing to all others). Something like that might be occuring when sum1 builds a relationship with sm1 in the way he wanted it to be. And then whatever changes that takeas place all around him seems beautiful to him......( May be i am not very exact but smthing like that)

Q 5) Can you fall in 'love' more than once in your lifetime......
ANS) People say first love is different from all others. So may be u cant get ur first love again ......but yeah we do fall in love again and again....untill we have that heart within us working......

Q6)This one is very imp. : imagine a person likes you .... you know it but dont share the same feelings.... somehow you are stuck ina romantic situation.... that other person............. says he/she would like to kiss you .............. What would be your first thoughts........... not what will you say ....... but what will be the first thing going on in your head......
ANS) Well I really can't imagine :(:(:( Btr will see your play to get the answer.


Also anything else you would like to share on this topic

1)YES, Dont disturb the balance of nature by trying to get into a domain not made for you.
2) Please put a question mark at the end of every question.
3) PAF ke baare mein saale!!!!!

Vipin Kumar said...

Holy crap mishra, you stole my thunder!! I was about to write that equation. :( :(.

I am not going to answer those questions like a midsem, i.e., question by question, may be its because i am an aluminus and none of the commentator is one or may be because i am lazy bum. i think the correct answer would be a linear combination of both.

I can give my view about the love. I think the whole paradigm of love that is DEFINED BY YOU is wrong. You think that love is something a boy and a girl can feel among themselves. If thats the case then i think we should be living in the stone age, where we just eat, make love, sleep and do number 2.

To quote a "yet" to be famous friend of mine:


Whenever you try to quantify love, it just loses its meaning. You just cant quantify it.


What i believe ( again trying to contradict him like i always do ) that love is a passion for anything, what you believe will make you happy/sad/excited anything. Thats love according to me. I think if you go by this logic each and every question of yours can be answered.